A Healing & Informative Site About Narcissistic Sociopaths

Identity Theft

Do you ask yourself “who am I“? As if your identity has been stolen and now you are trying to figure out, what happened? Who was the person that ruined your life {identity}, and why are you paralyzed with your thoughts and emotions? Question, if in fact the person is a Narcissistic Sociopath?

A Narcissist, Sociopath, Psychopath has the ability to steal our Identity!  Not in the literal sense, like using your ID or Social Security number etc. Although………some have. What a Sociopath does in the Identity Theft is done silently & methodically without you knowing. After the ‘honeymoon’ phase, or ‘love bombing’ is over, and the real identity of the person you are or were with now comes to the forefront.

You ask yourself so many questions, you find yourself unable to have a ‘normal’ peaceful conversation with the Sociopath as it always turns around back on you, as if everything is your fault. This is the identity theft of your ability to have a logical conversation. Your actions are now under a microscope with false accusations against you, this is the identity theft of you being able to live your life without walking on egg shells, having to account for every moment of your day. You call out the Sociopath on their lie’s, and before you know it, the blame shift happens and YOU are the liar, this is the identity theft of you questioning whether the Sociopath really is a liar. The Sociopath silently manipulates your thoughts and emotions for their sick personal gain, this identity theft, now makes you think there is something wrong with you!

You have lost your self-worth, self-esteem all because of words and actions from the Sociopath, this is a huge Identity Theft! As you think to yourself you will never recover from what they have done to you! Your entire Identity of who you were PRIOR to the Sociopath is now gone. You think to yourself ‘was the entire relationship nothing but lie’s? I meant nothing to the Sociopath? How could we live so ‘happy’ for so long?” You have those thoughts because the Identity Theft was being done.

Once the Sociopath moves on to a new victim person, you feel they took part of your Identity with them. You may even think you were co-dependent on the Sociopath, NO! That was them stealing your identity. Do not confuse co-dependence with wanting to be loved in return. Do not confuse co-dependence with expecting a person you have poured your heart and soul into, wanting to have validation from, respect, even compassion! A Sociopath lacks any and all ability to love, be truthful, have compassion, sympathy, live without judgement, and will NEVER take accountability for their lies, their actions, or acknowledge in any way how much they have hurt you~ EVER! This is the Identity Theft from you. They have taken everything good, kind, financial, emotionally & mentally from you! This quote say’s it all. Read it over and over, and get your Identity back!

you have your identity when you find out, not what you can keep your mind on, but what you can keep your mind off                               a.r. ammons


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