I am reaching out to you reader’s on this email I received. I have replied personally, but also thought it would be good to have you, give your own personal experience(s) on how you broke up with a Sociopath. This is not for those of you who were discarded, rather, YOU ended the relationship. I will point out one very important fact in this…..these 2 people live on different continents! If your like me, my first thought is: you live on 2 separate continents, it’s real easy, BLOCK all access to you! Delete him from Facebook/Whatsapp/Snapchat etc. And this person ask’s ‘how to break up peacefully”…..there is no such word(s) as Peace or Peacefully when dealing with a Sociopath.
I’m in a 1 yr relationship with a full blown narcissistic sociopath. I found out he has this personality disorder recently. I am ready to get him off my life now. Because he’s continuously draining me financially and emotionally. He’s very selfish and insensitive and I can’t stand his rudeness and aggression towards other people. I’ve been reading articles about his condition for a few months already and he exactly fits everything and more. Now I’m done tolerating his shit but I’m still pretending I have no idea what kind of person he is. Should I let him know that I know he’s a sociopath that’s why I wanna break up with him? Or just give him other reasons for breaking up? I’m scared of his revenge after I dump him because he seems like the violent type. Please tell me how to break up peacefully with an extremely violent narcissistic sociopath. Without him wanting to hurt me back. I don’t want scandal or physical injury from him. I’ve suffered emotional and financial trauma already with him in the course of our relationship.
I know you think I’m not probably in danger because we don’t live together. If I don’t feel I’m in danger I wouldn’t even bother asking other people’s help. This man is violent and doesn’t give a fck about anyone. He doesn’t even care what happens to him to his life or if he goes to jail. He has said that many times when he got pissed off with an old lady at the casino. He wanted to beat her up literally. Lucky the authorities were able to take her away. I’m afraid of him because he is physically violent. Not only verbally. That’s why I don’t want to piss him off.
When he’s angry he trips and becomes impulsive unmindful of the repercussions of his actions.
Thank you and I hope to hear from you soon.