I had a comment from a reader under the No Contact Post: “I need help. The narc won’t stop even though I went no contact. I haven’t seen him in two years. I don’t know what to do I feel like I can’t get away or that he will do something to hurt me or my family. I’m scared and I don’t know the answer. Keep ignoring him? Respond just enough to keep him from getting angrier? I want him completely and permanently out of my life. He’s texting and calling.” I replied to her underneath, but I also want to write a post about this.
A few weeks back Greg, the Ex {I refuse to say ‘my’ Ex as I want zero association with him}. After being apart for over a year and half, he has been RELENTLESS in making sure to have some sort of contact with me. Be it his flying monkey’s, actual prostitutes etc. You can read about all of this HERE.
Prior to that I had to hire an attorney and have him served because of continual harassment. After he was served he had the balls nerve, to fire off an email to my attorney trying to discredit me. And in typical Sociopath behaviour, they fear nothing! You can read about what he did to discredit me and the letter he was served with HERE.
And then a week ago I received this email: My responses will be in RED: and i apologize for the harsh reality words! Even though I wrote a post about having the Last Word! Even an educated woman with her degree in Psychology just cannot continue to handle the bullshit. My advice, if you need to have the last word, do it. However, do not except for the Sociopath to have an ‘awakening’ and saying to themselves ‘wow, I really am fucked up’. It won’t happen!!
From: Greg
Date: February 12, 2015 11:30:25 AM
To: ❤️Tela❤️ <telahill1@gmail.com>
Subject: exactly!
I’m no longer going to answer your calls, texts, or emails until you give me enough GODDAMNED respect and stop suspending your phone.{your wanting respect? Really? that’s hilarious, why didn’t you give ME any respect?} If you can’t, then oh well. You got a second phone that I don’t even have the number to, and yet you HAD access to ALL of my stuff.{once again, how did i have access to “ALL” of your “STUFF”?? Oh that’s right! YOU GAVE ME ACCESS… once again, Tela has to one-up.{was this a ‘one-up’? No if you will get out of delusional land and remember YOU GAVE ME ACCESS to ‘PROVE I’m NOT LYING!!!!!”} If you would stop all this crap, we could have a perfect relationship and I know you know that.{now Tela, stop pointing out the truths of my behaviour because you know i don’t like it and will only attack you. so Tela YOU stop the crap while i continue….ohhhh OK!!! } I know you know I love you and will fill your heart with passion, joy, laughter, and companionship. Why did I cheat to you and lie about it? Because you only dangled little carrots of hope in front of me.{taaaa-daaaaa, and now ONE MORE REASON, I mean EXCUSE as to why you cheated, how many more will be added to the list of excuses you have already given me????} It was ALL on your terms. You were moving too slow for me considering you were already my love and my best friend.{if i was moving ‘to slow’ then why not fucking tell me?? Instead of blaming me here, all you had to say in big boy grown up terms “Tela this is moving to slow I can’t do this’, but noooooo, you were having too much fun leading me on and fucking other women…keeping ME hanging on for the ‘just in case it didn’t work out with someone else’. I begged you to let me move close to you so we could have a better relationship,{and so you did. as if that is the fix all to ALL the bullshit for the past 16 months. Move wherever the fuck you want.} told you I loved you and missed you and got NOTHING in return.{ahhhhhh, here we throw down the victim card. I told you ‘TELL ME THE FUCKING TRUTH EVERY SINGLE DAY, AND GOT NOTHING IN RETURN!!! NOTHING!!!!!! EXCEPT MORE FUCKING LIES AND PROMISES. SO DON’T YOU DARE THROW DOWN THIS PATHETIC BLAME CARD THAT YOU GOT ‘NOTHING IN RETURN’...only YOU are the cause of that. I was weak and hurting because ALL I WANTED IN THIS WORLD WAS YOU!! So I filled the void with those girls.{hurting/weak/drunk/lonely/revenge/getting back at me/now add in moving to slow}, where did the {i need to be honest with Tela and end it with her, ever come into your mind??? The first time you would have told me “Greg, I love you, let’s make this happen”, ALL of my crap would have stopped.{will you read this again? All i had to say was ‘i love you let’s make this work etc….’ ummmmmmm, this is so hard to comprehend because that’s like saying to a heroin addict, don’t do that it will hurt you, but the first time they are around it, or lonely, or weak they shoot up again. Pretty sad someone had to say words to you for YOUR actions to be good. That in itself is so fucked up!! seriously. } Open up a little next time,{how much more OPEN did I need to be to make you realize you were lying not only to me but to yourself??? stop the fucking blame game!!!} you made me feel like I was beating a dead horse for many months.{if I ‘made you feel’ like this, it’s because YOU DID and STILL DO. You are the one who refuses to let go of bullshit that cannot be changed in your ENTIRE past.} I think I stuck it out A HELL OF A LOT LONGER than most guys would have.{BULLSHIT right here! YOU were the one BEGGING me for ONE MORE CHANCE. So to say ‘YOU’ stuck it out is straight up 100% bullshit because YOU were the one fucking around and lying/deceiving making promise after promise and begging me for chance after chance. So I AM the ONE who STUCK IT OUT~ NOT YOU!!! Don’t you EVER say that again. But that’s because I know how much I love you, desire you, and want to be with you. Balls in your court. If you want us to happen, say the word and I’ll make it happen. And I’ll treat you like an angel. We will laugh, sing, be best friends, fly, and make an awesome life together. I love you Tela.
Sent from
Greg’s iPhone
If you read that email, look how many times I was ‘blamed’ for him cheating, I was ‘blamed’ for pretty much everything. So to get the Sociopath to go away, for me, it was very easy to block him on my cell. Block his email address {of course I have countless numbers from flying monkey’s blocked}. You cannot keep playing their game. They are so much more skilled than those of us without an ASPD. To fear them, only gives them more satisfaction, more control etc. You have to dig deep within yourself to stop! Stop giving them any part of your being! The Sociopath is so not worthy!
This quote say’s it all perfectly!!! “Good-bye. I am leaving because I am bored.” george saunders
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