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Scandal and Deceit ~

“Oh, what a tangled web we weave…when first we practice to deceive” Walter Scott


After months and months and more months of salacious scandal and  pure verbal warfare I had to retain an attorney to try and stop the non-stop abuse from the Socio. The Socio decided that his smear campaign was not doing quite enough damage to me…..so he resorted to social media.  These are some of the ways Sociopath’s/Psychopaths/Narcissist try and ruin us via the internet.

  • Facebook~they will post pictures of you and he/she and then leave a slanderous comment on the pic. (and in my case post my phone number)
  • Instagram~another way to post pictures and more slanderous comments (or delusional comments)
  • Craig’s List~ yep, that’s right! Putting an ad on there for some random crap and listing your phone number. (how scary is this for a single female)!!!!
  • Online Dating Profile~I personally have never had an online dating profile, but imagine my surprise anger when I found out “I” had one!!
  • Signing Up On Pornography Sites~and using your email.


After having all this done, it was time to start fighting back~LEGALLY.  When obtaining a solicitor/attorney to represent you against a Sociopath, Psychopath, Narcissist it is imperative that you find one with previous experience dealing with these kind of people. I cannot stress this enough! As we know, our Socio’s etc can manipulate any and all situations, even the legal system! Remember how easy they duped us? Solicitor’s and Attorney’s need job security as well, but not at the expense of us!

Lies and scandal’s can and will destroy us in the public eye. And if manipulated convinced enough, these lies and scandal will destroy everything from family, to career’s, child custody, to volunteer work etc. The emotional/mental and for some the physical abuse we have endured is destructive enough. Yet, Sociopath’s have no shame, guilt or even remorse for creating social destruction for us.

I am not saying that having a solicitor send a letter such as mine above will stop your Sociopath from further ruination (as it enraged mine), but when I threatened with further actions {as my attorney listed in the letter} the Socio realized I was serious. As we know so well they do not want to be found out~ EXPOSED for who and what they truly are!

This is an email that the Socio sent to my attorney after receiving my Cease and Desist letter: notice how he manipulates my attorney’s wording, and accuses ME of  ‘harassment, a lair/cheater and deceiver’, and justify his words and actions because what he did/said was ‘simply the truth’ {in his delusional mind}.  Typical though of a Sociopath. I did have my cell records subpoenaed to prove the Socio wrong, and also to protect my reputation. {see again Liar Liar } . Do not throw away, shred or get rid of anything from your Sociopath. You never know when you have to literally fight for yourself and/or your reputation.

From: ******
Date: Dec 19, 2013 05:38:08 PM
Subject: Re: Cease and Desist Letter
To: *****

Slanderous comments? Could you please define that? The comments I’ve made are neither malicious, slanderous nor defamatory, simply the truth. And also, since they were written, I believe it is called libel, and not slander correct? Unlike your friend Miss *****, I am not the liar, cheater, or deceiver. I have ask her numerous times times to stop contacting me (which, if you would have taken the time to look at the facts on her cell phone instead of simply going by what she told you, would be quite obvious). I have no intention of contacting her other than sending her her personal items which she left in my house, which I did PRIOR to receiving this letter. And since you are not an agency which can tell me to cease and desist anything, your letter, legally, has zero bearing to me. If Miss ***** wants to continue to harass me, either personally or through a third party such as yourself, then I will go ahead and pursue my endeavors that I have already begun, but have placed on hold. Like I said, she has harassed me,  (which I have the texts from her) along with many other things. So if anybody has committed slander and libel, it’s your friend.  Lol.
Sent from

G*** iPhone����
Needless to say, and as will be no surprise to most of you, the Socio STILL continues to contact me (although the social ruination has stopped). I do not respond to his attempts at contact as I have  literally removed myself from the path to hell. Re-reading his email to my attorney just makes me realize how truly dangerous  Sociopath’s, Psychopath’s, Narcissist and anyone with a personality disorder truly are! And how easily they manipulate words and actions .
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10 Responses to “Scandal and Deceit ~”

  1. notme2014

    OMG…I think we know the same guy! I find it almost comical that they are all so alike….it would be comical, if it were funny….but unfortunately they are predators and terrorists! They twist and turn words, never accepting blame or responsibility, and they talk like they are so smart….what a bunch of predictable assholes. No contact…. Light and Love


    • denise

      They have no conception of culpability responsibility or remorse. No empathy or depth whatsoever. I have never in my life known such a disordered person. The lengths my ex BOS goes to is beyond comprehension to the point that his whole life and the hours of every day is spent cultivating destroying hurting every single person he has encountered. He has no time left to work, make a life for himself, move on or be happy { I don’t think “happy” is an emotion he feels.} He isn’t just a cheat or a liar { that isn’t nice but there is plenty of it about and it is just a symptom of being weak}. This demented psychopathically dangerous man belongs in an institution. Its terrifying. And it never ever ends.


      • Tela

        Denise, thank you for your comment. Everything you stated describes pretty much everyone’s ‘ex’ Sociopath, {mine included}. Yes, it is beyond comprehension….but we do comprehend. We know they are seriously disordered, and that is why No Contact is imperative. Even though, to the Sociopath, that normally has no effect because then the Flying Monkey’s come out. I hope one day your ex finds another source for his outlet of demons within.


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