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Sociopath And Privacy

Privacy online

Sociopath’s and Narcissist are experts at hiding their true identities.  And because they are in a constant state of perpetual motion of keeping the ‘supply source’ going, they take advantage of every available avenue.

Some of these people will have online dating sites, other’s become involved with one (or more) people at work, still other’s can be out in any type of social setting to meet their next victim.  And there are other’s that use social media, ie: Facebook, SnapChat etc. The supply source is endless for people with  Antisocial Personality Disorder’s.

Since a sociopath  will have one or more of the above, there is a great need for privacy. So as to make sure we do not suspect, that they do in fact have one or more victim’s, they will go to great length’s to keep us in the dark. They will change their password’s constantly. Their cell phone will be like an extension permanently attached to their hand. They will be so convincing  in their lies about who was on the phone  (*note, they seem to have a lot of ‘nobody’s’ that call 🙂 LOL.) Some have their bank cards replaced  {as theirs is unusually compromised, frequently!!} They will rarely, if ever, leave their wallets far from their side.  Once you figure out how extremely private the Sociopath is with his/her life, and you start to ask questions, they will try and instill paranoia in you. 

This paranoia is done on a multi-level fashion. It may start out if you asked ‘I saw an email from a dating site’, their response could be: “oh, that wasn’t for me, it must have been sent by mistake. Or, “Don’t be silly, you know I don’t go on those sites”. Then if you question further the next level of paranoia is directed at you:

  • accusing you of being deceiving and/or lying
  • lying directly to you, and when you question that lie, they then turn it around to ‘why are you questioning ME’, acting the victim then.
  • telling you ‘all his friends and family’ think your crazy
  • making cutting remarks about ‘YOUR’ paranoia. 
  • they will make you feel like ‘everyone’ is on his side
  • they will blame an open web page on a friend and ask ‘why are you accusing me’? When in all reality you probably just asked and not accused. 

Once the Sociopath thinks he has set the paranoia in you, they then carry on with their outside supply source. Since they are aware that you might be on to them, they will go to even greater lengths to be private. The cell phone now may be on silent all the time , if they have a laptop, chances are it won’t be brought into the home anymore. They will be even more vague about their whereabouts, and if asked, once again that will be turned around on you as if YOU have something to hide.  Remember, their privacy is of utmost importance to them, as Sociopath’s fear being exposed.

While you may want to question them over and over about the above, chances are, you will never get a direct and honest answer. I equate this to being one step ahead of the Sociopath. Do your homework! If you find him on a dating site, print the information and confront ask him directly! He will however, most likely deny it is him. Or give you a litany of lies excuses as to why he is on there. The best way to deal with Sociopath’s and Privacy is to realize, you will never be privy to their other supply source. You have already established he is a liar. And by digging more, it will end up making you fall further into their spinning world of bullshit. 

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10 Responses to “Sociopath And Privacy”

  1. LuLuBelle66

    Found his ” dating” profile on an adult site. His face, his name, his email, his age, his birthday, etc…he lied said someone else created the profile. Really? Nothing but lies and half truths. He has invaded my privacy in so many ways. Constantly accusing me of hiding things. Total insanity. My advice is to find strength and do whatever you need to get out. Cut all ties. Be independent need nothing from them ever.


  2. Jody

    Yes again!!! When I got so fed up and my radar had flown up that something wasn’t right I’d ask, and usually she would tell me I’m very unattractive when I’m insecure. She would say,” that really turns me off because when we met you were so confident!! I’m seriously losing interest in you when you act like I would ever cheat on you!!” And then there was the silent ringtone, constant new guy friends on Facebook!! Two months ago she started using a passcode in her iPhone!! Guys from work would text her at all hours of the night, and all explained away as just needing more guy friends. But if I had female friends right away it was, “are you fucking that slut?” I know she went through my phone but if I ever thought of doing that it would have been the end of life.


  3. Robyn

    I remember how vague they are with the details of their ‘social lives’, but they make it their business to know everything about yours. They demand addresses of everyone you know, last names, and if you ask for the same?
    Yep, that same old vagueness or they simply don’t answer your concerns, if you press it, then they become abusive also.
    Ultimately, they know everything and everyone that is in your life, and you know almost zero about theirs.
    How I don’t miss that crap!!!


  4. robinvalinoti

    When I confront my husband, he yells at me for “snooping” and refuses to discuss the issue. I pray for strength to walk away from this insanity


    • Tela

      Thank you Robin for your comment. I to was yelled at, scream at for ‘snooping’, I always told him I ‘wouldn’t have to if you knew how to tell the truth’. I will pray for strength for you! It’s a very difficult {at best} relationship to be in!



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