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Copy And Paste


One of the first questions I am usually asked is “how can the ex move on so quickly and live happily-ever-after”. The answer is very simple: All Sociopaths work in Copy/Paste Mode. Think about this……. before you met them, they had most likely discarded someone before you and that person is asking the same thing of you and the Sociopath “how could they just move on so fast and live happily-ever-after”? But you did not live happily-ever-after did you? 

All the words lies out of their mouths was copy/paste. Same shit they said to the person prior to you. All of their achievements , lies were the same things said to the prior person {copy/paste}. All the future dreams they filled your head with~ {copy/paste}. The euphoric sex and feeling like your ‘the one’~ {copy/paste} as the previous person(s) were made to feel the same way. Your head is reeling because of all of their pathological lies said to you {copy/paste}, they have said those same lies to countless other’s before you, and will be said to countless other’s after you. Whether your Ex Sociopath was aggressive or passive aggressive {copy/paste}, again that is how they were with the prior person. You feel in love, they did not! Now that they have sailed on to someone new~ stop telling yourself they woke up and are magically a ‘normal’ person! NO! They are NOT!! They are just simply working in copy/paste mode. It may take months or even years, but the relationship will end, just like yours did, and just like the one’s prior to you did.

As I said in this ARTICLE , I do not speak about Greg. The ex Sociopath that I was personally & intimately involved with. Here is a classic example of {copy/paste}. Greg had zero knowledge of wine. I am not a wine connoisseur! However, I do know a little about the specific wines I enjoy. So I introduced Greg to wines etc. As stated in the article, this man has been relentless as far as trying to contact me, ‘reel me in’ etc. What has been funny is, I have had the fortune or misfortune of having some of his ex’s contact me. I had to sit back and laugh at the {copy/paste} of how Greg introduced him to the wine’s I drink (I never corrected them and said “he did not know a thing about wine until me). How they said he verbally abused them and is full of raging anger {copy/paste}. How they caught him cheating and texting other women {copy/paste}, the pathological lies {copy/paste}. And all the same behaviours, words vs. actions etc. he did with me {copy/paste}.

So you see, your ex did not wake up one day with fairy dust sprinkled on them and now all of a sudden they are a changed person. NO! They are still and always will be a Sociopath to their core. It’s just another day of COPY/PASTE for them. The new person in their life is experiencing EXACTLY what you have. And what is there to miss about that?

I do it because i can, I can because I want to, I want to because you said I couldn’t. –



7 Responses to “Copy And Paste”

  1. Jenna

    I would feel better somewhat knowing I wasn’t the only one fooled. We all want to believe we meant something.


    • Santaland

      Jenna, you are correct pursuant to wanting to believe we meant something. The fact is that we did not! Sorry. Action(s) speaks louder than words. Sure we meant something to them…a source of supply…nothing more due to their lack of empathy, lack of morales, and shallow fleeting personalities. Sure there was something in the beginning, there must have been….that I truly believe, but had I known it was too good to be true (which I did) then I would not have embarked, as I assume you did too. They live in a cycle…honeymoon, devalue and discard. Sure they would love for you to be available for a rainy day, sitting on a shelf waiting for their call….no, it is not worth the drama, accusations, mental rape, physical abuse and blame game.

      Jenna, as Tela’s article states, it is copy paste, they do not change, new characters but the script is the same, copy/paste. The best thing to do is heal yourself, move forward and never look back…NEVER with these nasty blood sucking leaches. They charm then harm…see other articles Tela has posted.


  2. Santaland

    Tela, your are correct! copy paste, just a new character, Great article, thanks for sharing this. I still would love to be a fly on the wall seeing the paste part, just to give me that satisfaction of veryfying my moments. That said, there is really nothing to miss.


    • Tela

      Thank you SantaLand. Yes, to be a ‘fly on the wall’ and listen to the same words that were said to you, just pasted onto her not-so-new-guy. You KNOW all the bullshit words he has heard {as you’ve heard the same}. You KNOW the physical abuse he has probably already endured. So as you said “there really is nothing to miss” ❤



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