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Sociopath After Sociopath

A common question people have after a relationship with a Sociopath is “Could I be a Sociopath”? The answer is NO! Because you have been methodically stripped of your mental and emotional well being, you find yourself starting to believe all the horrific things the Sociopath said to you. Because they project all of the insecurities, all of their faults onto you…..you begin to take that on, therefore, you question, ‘am I a Sociopath’.

After these relationships end, be it with a partner or parental, there is deep anger, hurt, confusion etc. So with all of these emotions you have going on at the same time, and a place within you that you never knew existed stripped away, that is why you think ‘could I be a Sociopath’. Your so angry at what they did to you. You are so hurt by the way you were discarded, or the way the other parent does not co-parent. Your heart is void and you can’t seem to find happiness. You think back to arguments and how you were blamed for everything wrong in their life. You think back to inconsistencies in their words & actions, and how YOU would put forth so much effort into ‘fixing’ the relationship. Again~ probably more energy you had to put into someone in your life.

You do not wake up one day in your 30’s-40’s-50’s etc a Sociopath! Period! Sociopath is a learned behaviour & happens in a person’s formative years up until their 20’s. Why this happens? So many reasons, causes etc. There is a part of our brain called the Amygdala.  The amygdala is involved in the processing of emotions such as fear, anger, and pleasure. What memories are stored and where the memories are stored in the brain. It is thought that this determination is based on how huge an emotional response an event invokes. It is believed that this part of the brain that a Sociopath stores the ‘learned behaviour’ all all the traits they carry with them through life.

With all that being said, no, you do NOT become a Sociopath after being with a Sociopath. I do believe however, that you can be a very angry, bitter, non-trusting person. You may even have the ‘victim attitude’ in place….I received 2 comments this weekend that reinforce this. This first comment was made by a person who ‘blogs’ about her ‘personal experience‘ and therefore in a follow up email to me, she states that ‘because she has worked in a homeless shelter and has been involved with not one but TWO Sociopath partner’s, she has far more ‘education’ than myself. Well, first off, if you had already been a victim of a Sociopath one time, chances are you LEARNED from that relationship and know what to look for in a person going forward. So strike one against you. Volunteering in a homeless shelter is wonderful, however, to give ‘professional advice’ because of this volunteering does a serious injustice to people looking for help/answers etc. strike two against you. And lastly, this person does not write under her name, rather a nickname and made reference in her email to me the number of ‘blog hits‘, strike three. Instead of boasting about ‘blog hits’, why not look at your own self and realize that you have been involved with TWO SOCIOPATHS, yet feel you can help another? I think not. This person also had a ‘flying monkey’ make a comment as well.

Comment from Nikki “Hmmm I see what spirit meant when I was told that someone had literally stolen my ideas and my work….. I hope that what they said about karma will come and these people will be dealt with …. is also true. As it caused me a lot of pain. Just so that you know. I had to go through one hell of a lot, and most of what I wrote was written when traumatised. No way would I be able to observe or note the level of detail (even in 2014) as by then I had emotional connection. When I came out of the relationship in 2015, I had to go back to my blog, to heal myself, as I had emotional connection in 2014 – therefore I didn’t remember the level of detail. You should take a look at theft of intellectual copyright laws.”

My response: “Hmmm. Could you be one of those internet trolls? I’m not sure why this email was composed and sent to me. And is very apparent, by visiting your blog site {first time EVER} that you have ZERO education as far as mental illness ~ only “personal experience “. Fair enough, it’s YOUR BLOG. However, not only do I hold my degrees in PYSCHOLOGY, I too, was involved with a horrific Narcissistic a Sociopath, therefore I share your ‘personal pain, trauma etc’.Considering you FALSELY ACCUSE ME of “stealing your work” you obviously have not read my postSmiling face with smiling eyes. And you may want to do some research on copy right laws in the United States and what all entailed for me to be able to copyright my post! 

In the meantime I respectfully ask you not to visit my site, or send hateful FALSE ACCUSATIONS emails. You may also want to be mindful of the way you portray yourself and your ‘educated’ advice. Please be specific that it is ONLY from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, not education!! Have a fabulous day!
She then sent this email this morning ”

Sent: Monday, April 20, 2015 at 8:30 AM
From: “nikki G” <nikkigillett>
To: Taela�� <taelahill@mail.com>
Subject: RE: Blog
I have zero education regarding mental illness? Really, I worked for two decades In the homeless field, worked alongside community mental health teams. I have studied psychology have qualifications in counselling.
 
I have spent my whole life working with people. But, yes, its just personal experience? What do you think you learn at university? Is that personal experience? What do you think you learn working decades with people? What training do you think you go on during those years at work? 
 
And so, you hold degree (s) in Psychology – what work experience do you have? As from my experience, I learned far more in the workplace, than I ever did in university.
 
So, wrong again.
 
I am sure that my work has accuracy, otherwise it wouldn’t have almost 3 million hits in 2 years.
 
Nikki
My reply, as of which I will no longer respond to her:

‘working’ in a homeless shelter does not constitute the ability to give EDUCATED ADVICE to victims. ‘Studying’ pyschology is one thing, having your ENTIRE CAREER treating people with mental illness, counseling victims of a person with mental illness gives me far more ‘experience’ than you. And ‘learning at university’ is so that, unlike you, I give EDUCATED ADVICE, PRESCRIBE MEDICATIONS IF NEED BE, and don’t have a blog based on ‘personal experience’ wrote solely from your personal experience. You are doing a serious injustice to victims. So my ‘WORK PLACE’ is my career!! Get your facts correct!
And how funny to make a comment about your ‘blog hits’, to me, that borders on you having some issues! 

This is a person who is a classic example of an angry, bitter ‘victim’ of a Sociopath. It should not be about ‘blog hits’. If you are giving advice or writing on a public forum, do so in a helpful way. As is stated in the ‘About Me’ page. I don’t write under a ‘nickname’ I, too, was a victim of one of the most horrific Narcissistic Sociopaths on the planet. So yes, I have Personal & Educational Experience and knowledge. It is truly sad when we have been victimized in our personal relationships, and sadder still that a person who claims to want to ‘help people’ in fact attacks and makes seriously false accusations. This is what one of her flying monkey’s posted:

You will never obtain peace. Your life is nothing more than a pathetic mess. How does it feel each morning you wake to know that you are facing the Universe alone? That know one thinks of you and stays as far away from your evilness and person as possible. You are insignificant. That your life is totally meaningless and you offer nothing to the Universe. It would be best that you stay in bed and never leave your house. That would make the Universe glow.
Please be careful when searching the internet for answers, help, guidance etc. There are thousands of blogs, websites etc. There is nothing wrong with people having their blogs to write about their experience, their abuse…it is very helpful to other’s to know they are NOT ALONE. What is hurtful is when a person such a Nikki writes from personal experience, has advertisements all over her page and then attacks other’s, what good is she doing?
©SociopathLife.Com

34 Responses to “Sociopath After Sociopath”

  1. LaNeese Pantuso

    Some folks are so clueless. I’m not going to waste any keystrokes on whomever she and her flying monkeys are, or whatever blog they write for, or how many hits it gets.
    I don’t have time for kindergarteners.
    I, like most of us, have looked all over the internet for answers. I’ve read, undoubtedly, some of the same things over and over, with perhaps a slightly different perspective or viewpoint,. describing the sociopathic behavior.
    When I landed, or shall I say crashed, here a few weeks ago, I had been trudging through the shrapnel for nearly 3 months, after 14 years of unadulterated HELL.
    This site changed my life, and I have a child, who has undoubtedly benefited as a result.
    I will forever be grateful beyond words.
    The flavor of the perspective expressed here is a 100% match to my pet path.
    I could only read a few posts at time, then I allowed the information to process, and internalize. After a couple of days, through the words on this site, I recovered the courage [that was always there, but was repressed from the abuse] to get off of my ass and retake control of my fucking life.
    I am loyal to a fault. I’ve got your back, because you saved my ass.
    Soo, whoever *they* are, they can piss on their blog hits. I have no time or energy for the drama of the insecure. I lived with it for years..

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    • Tela

      Thank you, and I agree. Therefore, I do not have ‘blog stats’ etc on my site. That is pointless. My personal view on this website is: if I can help ONE PERSON to understand it was NOT them, to help ONE PERSON gain clarity/validation and help them get their life back together, then my job has been done. It is not about ‘stats’ or ‘flying monkey’s. This is a very serious issue that causes life-long deep, deep scars! A Sociopath forever changes who you once where. If you, LaNeese have been able to move forward ONE day by reading one article on here, then I’m so happy you ‘crashed’ LOL here! Continued positive energy and thoughts…..you no longer ‘owe’ the Ex a moment of your precious time. ❤

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  2. Katie

    I’ve been reading this for a few days now and my god I don’t think you understand the help your giving me!!! It’s been 7 years with my ex we have 2 children, all the relationship all of my family said he was controlling and manipulative but I couldn’t see it, 2 years ago he left me and 2 weeks later was with my best friend of 10 years! Some friend ey? So cut a long story short he was back an two between us both for a year (supply source!!) I had a proposal in this but then he left he then came back, he had me move away from near my parents to the other side of town then we had the chance to get back near my parents, we did. He left again. Then he moved me to his parents whilst waiting for a home, got one not too far away from family but not round the corner. We had nothing because this was a fresh start so allllll new everything he said…we got the house an he was gone back to her in a week!! Then I picked myself up after a few months I got so much abuse I’m a bad mother because I worked nights and my girls were always staying at my parents, I quit my job on anti depressants, then boooom I find out she was pregnant!!!! My world crashed, I have his babies no body else what the hell?! I was an absolute mess!! Slowly I got used to it, well I didn’t I just pretended it wasn’t happening I had 9 months before I had to deal with it! Few months later, I’m dropping off the girls to him and he’s so nice, asks to go the park we spent the day together, such a lovely day. Get back to his and he cracks open the vodka and we have a few drinks and then it comes out, she’s a psycho she’s a nutter her other kids(that aren’t his) are so naughty, he’s miserable, she is so jealous of you and pushes our girls away because she knows I will always want you!!! I fucking fell well no I drowned in his words and that was it!!!! From then on we were in a secret relationship because he needed to wait to get his name of the certificate or she’d take away his baby, aww poor thing I thought!!!! So I went along nobody knew, and then few months. He had to get back with her, ey what why?! Just so she could fuck up and then he could be done with her once an for all… Ohh you poor thing okay then!!! (I’m cringing writing this ha) he didn’t last long she did be a nutter and crazy and he left an then we were back to being a secret an so on then boom baby was born!!!! Disappeared for 4 weeks! Then he came back his names on the birth certificate and it’s over! I met his daughter at 4 week old she’s so beautiful we did family things together we chilled out went out snuggled in bed, his lie to his family was were just really close friends so that made sense how we were always with each other! But it still had to be a secret because he’d loose his daughter, until she moved on! Okay I understand (no I fucking don’t!!) but I had him that’s all that matters and after everything he’s realised it was me he loved and needed! Pfffffft yea right! We helped each other out financially money was money we shared each other’s, I even bought his other daughter loads of stuff!!! I helped him do his cv and get a new job he needed a passport cscs card I did it, he needed his own flat, I sorted it! All of a sudden he started acting weird, ide go to kiss him and he’s say no were just friends remember!! Ey?! Then low and behold 2 weeks later the ex nutter psycho pops up and it’s bye bye to me and he now loves her again and wants to get back with her!!! And now I’m totally lieing he’s never made me think we were more than friends it was just sex it was nothing, he made it clear, he’s never told me he loved me once because he doesn’t so why would he?! What the hell!!!! After contact 24 /7 then nothing!! He was so hands on with our girls too, then not even a text to ask how they are?! A week later I get a message the day before he’s supposed to have them just saying can’t have them sorry! And that’s it!! I found this site then and I’ve blocked him I won’t stop him, but it just shows he can be so loving and hands on with them one minute and then next he’s gone for weeks on end without a mention! Any advise to give me please do!! I have gone back an too so many times and every time I get hurt but he has this horrible power that I feel sorry for him for what he’s done to me because he never meant too! YES HE DID!!! I need to help him sort out his life he’s my problem, NO I DONT AND NO HES NOT! I think I’m done I hope I’m done but I’ve been here before and he’s clawed me back and I don’t see it happening until I’m hurt again! No contact is in place regardless if he have children he can ring that way I don’t see any nasty messages or he can’t tell me how happy he is or whatever!! Still hasn’t rang though and two weeks no contact now
    Thanks again you’ve helped me more than ever!!!
    Katie
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    • Tela

      Thank you Katie for sharing your story. First & foremost, reading your words I could see them screaming SOCIOPATH regarding the ex. Go back and re-read what you wrote here…..look at how he manipulated you and how easily you believed the bullshit out of his mouth. Typical Sociopath. PLEASE understand, he/they will ALWAYS, ALWAYS have additional ‘supply sources’ or another person on this side. They absolutely with 100% certainty CANNOT be faithful to one partner. Period! Right now, you have the control of YOUR LIFE with no contact in place. He has used you long enough to sustain his sick mind! Please, do not fall prey back to any hearts & flowers of words of “I Love you Forever”, please read THIS

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  3. Persia Karema

    You’ve definitely helped me my friend. I love your blog and you! ❤ Some people get kicks out of attacking others for no reason. Easier said than done, but just ignore them! Hugs. xx

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  4. Candy

    After six years of hell with my sociopathic, narcissist devil I have once a for all decided that the two person drama filled journey has officially ended. The moment that I made that decision will forever be etched into my brain. It was a moment of clarity that has eluded me for six years. The thought so gracefully entered my mind as I quietly uttered to myself during one of his destructive downward spirals of drunkeness and hatred, “You can destroy your life, but you will no longer destroy my life.” This thought seems so simple, but has been monumentally profound. How did I not see this before. How could I not realize all of this years ago? Why was that thought at that moment so profound?

    Kudos to such a great blog – especially one that is current. Thank you and ignore the haters. And I agree (she is probably a sociopath or narcissist herself). Cheers to escaping with my life, my house and money in the bank.

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    • Tela

      Thank you Candy for your comment. What a wonderful & powerful thought “you can destroy your life, but you will no longer destroy my life”! Excellent. And how you did not realize all of that years ago, is because just like this article states about the Sociopath Poison that was being spoon feed to you silently & methodically. It is impossible to see the red-flags, alarm bells, whatever you want to call them once you get sucked into a Sociopaths delusional world. It takes either, like you said a ‘monumentally profound thought’, discard, or utterly complete brokenness can one then truly know they are in an abusive relationship.
      As far at the ‘haters’…there always has to be some. And you can’t help but to feel sorry for those individuals. ❤

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  5. hey_there_Delilah

    This is pretty shocking, Tela, but such persons are not worth your attention. Anyone can give advice based on personal experience, but it doesn’t in any way compare to professional advice – this is why the field of psychology even exists! You have helped hundreds of us get through horrifying experiences, and you do not need to justify and explain yourself and your work to anyone. Lots of love.
    Delilah

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    • Tela

      Hello Delilah! Good to hear from you!!!!!! Thank you for your kind comment ❤ and I didn't feel I needed to justify myself, rather, it was two-fold. One to show that some people after a relationship with a Narcissistic Sociopath become so bitter, so filled with hate/anger etc that they lash out at anyone, including complete strangers. And secondly, I felt I needed to defend myself {something we ALL have/had to do with a Sociopath far to many times}. Nikki’s emails/comments are not the first hateful one’s I have received. Given a public forum, I have to expect that not everyone will like/agree or have anything positive to say. If they would simply take the time to read A Face to This Website” the ‘Nikki’s’ of the world will understand that I, in no way will tolerate attacking, derogatory, or self-serving comments/emails etc. This website has helped thousands of individuals…..and at the end of the day, if I helped just ONE, it is worth all the hater’s!!! 😀 ~hugs~ ❤

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  6. Hayden

    It really is quite a sad state of affairs when someone who masquerades being a professional attacks another in such a way. Its even worse, when on the face of it, it is totally unjustified.

    The one common denominator in this is that people are the victims of the sociopath and the accuser does nothing to not perpetuate they have sociopathic tendencies. How about that?

    I guess based on their reasoning, older always means wiser and university education means little even though they comment they have qualifications too. We all know too, the because its on the internet or you have a large following that makes you credible (Justin Beiber, anyone?).

    Its all based on flawed reasoning but the one thing I just don’t get it, is why attack another person who seems to have the same agenda (i.e helping people with a big issue – dealing with and recovering from a sociopath) – it defies logic.

    End rant.

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    • Tela

      Thank you Hayden for your comment & I agree. I received another hateful/attacking email from this woman. Here is an excerpt: “Get over yourself. I bet you went to uni and then had a job for a couple of years, it cant be that good for you to be writing a blog. I started mine when I had to give up work. I didn’t have time in my life to work full time then write a blog how do you? Or don’t you have a life? Something doesn’t add up here!” Now, after reading her entire email(s), I question if, she may in fact be a Sociopath. Red flags scream all throughout the emails i.e. boasting of ‘blog hits’ ‘blame shifting of not having ‘time to work full time & then write a blog”, out of the blue attacking me, {the comment about if I have a life}false allegations, and the flawed reasoning {as you said defies logic}, we ALL know Narcissistic Sociopaths have no logic. So all of her emails scream SOCIOPATH to me. And that is my PROFESSIONAL OPINION. However, unlike herself {of which I did visit her blog after her first email} I see how inconsistent she has been with her postings, almost a year of no post. Yet, she ‘claims’ to want to help people. I do not want to take away from what I do for thousands of people. This post was about the question people ask is “Could I be a Sociopath” after being with one. Like I said, the answer is NO, however Nikki is either a Sociopath {which I strongly believe}, or she is a classic example of an angry/ bitter, hateful person after her THREE relationships. Now that is something that doesn’t add up! LOL 😀

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  7. Only Me

    Loved your post! While, I make no claims of being a professional, I have studied the psychological Sciences, and I worked in the academic field for over 15 years helping to train and educate psychology graduates and undergraduates (including assisting in the preparation and submission of professional papers to qualified academic publications)…. but no matter. That doesn’t mean squat!

    Nothing prepared me to deal with my psychopath. I was just too trusting, guileless and naive. xcuse me for not using my real name, but there are trolls out there that have chased and harassed me all over the internet, and it’s a matter of self-protection to remain anonymous!

    Nothing excuses the kind of behavior which you have described from that of sending hateful, nasty emails etc. If she were truly professional, she could have an honest disagreement perhaps focusing on some of your points, but could still be civil and respectful in her rebuttals. That’s how professionals behave!

    You’re right about how having a traumatic experience with a sociopath teaches you many things, if you let it! I can now see these individual coming a mile off (because I know what to look for now!), and I can cut them off before they have a chance to do me any damage.

    I do like the way you think, and I have no disagreements with your POV. Keep on writing and the best of luck to you!

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    • Tela

      Thank you Only Me for your comment. And yes! It does mean ‘squat’ your chosen profession as what you do is very important to people like me to obtain our degree’s. I completly understand & respect each and every person who chooses not to use their real names. As you said, there are internet trolls, single women & victims of Sociopaths who are bascially in fear of being found. I follow several blogs: here is a short list of people who do not use their real names, yet blog about their personal experience(s) where they have been, how hard recovery is etc. AofA Marilyn Soul Healing By Art Rivka Secret Angel BNB Persia All of these blogs and many,many more I follow as each of their stories is heartbreaking. Yet they all have a voice to help other’s. Whereas I feel ‘Nikki’ is simply concerned about ‘blog hits’. Personally, if she disagreed with some of my points, she simply could have closed my website. As I do not believe a public forum is a place to have disagreements, nasty comments etc. And you LEARNED from your experience/relationship with the Psychopath. ❤

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      • Only Me

        Good point about having public disagreements. When I don’t agree with a blogger’s comments, beliefs or actions, I usually move on to those I do. Life is too short to get into pointless squabbles which often cannot be peaceably resolved. No need to get hostiler and belligerent with people just because you don’t like what they had to say on certain subjects.

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      • Tela

        Absolutely!! And it is bad enough we have already been victimized/traumatized in our personal lives. We certainly do not need to be victimized by a stranger on a public forum.

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      • Tela

        another bit of her nasty email: “

          How do you know what I have been through? You don’t have a clue. I write with humour

        (sic) {she may need to use spell check}

          in simple terms so people can read it, who wants to read complicated articles if you are in a bad way? I am trained to work with vulnerable people – therefore I write things that are easy to understand..…I wouldn’t want to read an academic piece of work. That is boring.

        ” LOL is all I could do. Of course she wouldn’t want to read ‘an academic piece of work’…..to much truth in it? Or most likely because she lacks what readers are truly looking for..which is ANSWERS,HELP, UNDERSTANDING. We are surrounded by ignorance, and Narcissistic Sociopaths in all area’s of our lives. It’s being able to see through the bullshit & protecting ourselves from individuals such as the ‘Nikki’s’ of the world. 😀

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    • AlohaLover

      I have just started to read this thread….this person has no idea. Although, you are correct…if I recall correctly, my EX sociopath said the same thing to me. There must be a book out there on “Cliché Sayings Of The Sociopath”

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      • Tela

        Typical Sociopath nastiness. That is his projection of the reality of what will happen to him!

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      • notme2014

        I’m sure you’re right ..but it scares me to think he seems to have made this his life’s mission! Will it ever end?

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      • Tela

        YES it will end, but only until YOU MAKE IT END! No contact, no defending whatever bullshit he tells someone, no acknowledging he is living/breathing etc. Even thoughts of him in your head ‘keep it alive’. It takes strength that you do not realize you actually have to END this! Ask yourself? What positive is coming out of ANY thoughts or feelings I have of him?”…….answer is? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

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  8. Santaland

    Greetings Tela. Read this insert with interest. It is only natural that other bloggers have opinions and experience accordingly. That said, specifically pursuant to homeless people, I have read that that is what a sociopath life eventually ends up like….homeless muttering to themselves. Am NOT saying all homeless people are sociopaths, but I am saying sociopaths end up on the street when they no longer can pull the crap they have pulled their entire life.

    As far as accusations about ‘stealing’ ideas….well in my humble opinion that is total…..BULLSHIT. Simply because the topic is multi-layered however the sociopaths follow a script….thus as they say, all roads lead to Rome., hence there will be overlaps, similar ideas etc.

    Tela, I follow your blog…you have helped me greatly for a long time now and I thank you. Not to worry about input from others….in fact they should focus on thier input, their readers and the homeless accordingly. Yes I agree, experience, education, knowledge all contribute to having good insight.

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    • Tela

      Thank you SantaLand for your comment. Yes! All roads lead to Rome….as far as ‘overlaps, similar ideas experiences yes again. Every single person affected from a Sociopath has been done in the exact same fashion. Therefore, personally, I feel that ‘Nikki’ thinks she is the only one who can write about these horrific people. There are thousands of blogs, websites etc. From Mental Disorders to DIY projects & everything in between. The problem I have, is if a person is ‘claiming’ to have a blog to ‘help other’s’ she, herself would not ACT like a Sociopath with the attacking comment & ensuing emails. Just my Professional Opinion.

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  9. notme2014

    So sad that this person has to personally attack you. I am sure I am one of MANY…you have helped get through and understand what happened to us….much love to you!!!!! The “universe” appreciates you 🙂

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    • Tela

      Thank you NotMe for your comment. If I have helped just ONE person, then that is a HUGE accomplishment to me. I don’t base this site on ‘blog stats’. Nor do I agree with attacking as we have already been victimized & traumatized enough in our lives. Much love to you and your continued healing. ❤

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      • Santaland

        Tela, I think you have helped more people than you know, some perhaps just read, others have thanked you and appreciated your support from all over the world…and this you know as a fact. Keep on doing what you do.

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      • I am Titanium

        Hi Tela, as a follower of your site for over a year, I know I am one of many that your work has helped immeasurably. We choose whose work adds up and over time consistently demonstrates the care and integrity we can learn to trust. Anyone can talk the talk. Survivors of this horrific abuse, professional or not, with help from many sources (including on-line forums) learn to ignore/avoid those whose talk and actions do not match or make sense to us. No longer will we tolerate (sociopathic) abuse. Thank you, Tela.

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      • Tela

        Thank you Debbi for your kind & powerful comment. Yes, we no longer will tolerate abuse in ANY form. Period. All of us are important, all of us have voices and should be heard. And those of us who have been victimized/traumatized from a Sociopath certainly do not need anymore abuse, period. Continue on your path of healing. I know it has been a LONG journey! ❤

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