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Sociopath Con Artist

We live in a society of ‘quick-fix’. Need longer hair? Glue in extensions. Wrinkles? Purchase the latest & greatest miracle cream. To fat? Get lipo-suction.

A Sociopath works in the same quick-fix way! They do this by being a Con Artist. When you first meet them, your just in awe of their lies words of grandeur! The amount of attention from them makes you feel like the luckiest person in the world. Hours and hours of conversations, fun and exciting memories made. The euphoric sex, nothing you have ever experienced before. Everything is a quick-fix! And ALL of these words & actions are because you are being coned by the best con artist on the planet~ a Sociopath.

Why do they habitually lie? To con you into believing them, because they honestly truly believe the bullshit that comes out of their mouths! Keep in mind, by being the con artist is just a means to an end for them. They KNOW what they are doing. The Sociopath does not necessarily believe they know they are lying because they, themselves, believe their lies!!!! Even if you point out the obvious lie, they will then come up with another lie to con you into finally believing agreeing with them. All Sociopaths are con artist. Period. They enter into the relationship with an agenda! To con you out of whatever they can get. Be it emotionally, mentally, financially! You have what the Sociopath wants. And that is not necessarily a tangle item. It is Your life/lifestyle is what they want! And what YOU can provide for THEM!

If you are currently in a marriage or relationship & the Sociopath knows that, that raises the stakes for them! They will go to any length to con you out of your marriage, and/or relationship with another because that is competition for the Sociopath, & we know they always have to win! When the Sociopath realizes they have you 100% emotionally invested into them, that feeds their conning! You will begin to feel the push and pull from them. This means, they will push you away {disappearing act}, start the verbal mind fucking {you can read about that HERE} then pull you back in when you tell them you have had enough. All this is a Sociopath Con Artist, which equates to: A Narcissistic Sociopath will con you out of every single part of your being you were prior to meeting them! The only way to stop the Con Artist is to stop the contact. Even with children involved & you have to maintain contact, the Sociopath will STILL try and be the Con Artist they are!

“Every decent con artist knows that the simplest truth is more powerful than even the most elaborate lie.”    ally carter

 

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17 Responses to “Sociopath Con Artist”

  1. Eric Toulon

    Your kind of right but they also know how to spin the truth, and how to hide it which means that their lies are deliberate. If you go to the website I listed it will show newspaper and magazine articles on a very influential person that lists his background and history, and excerpts of arrest records that clearly contradict that history.
    It will also show how he can pull bankers, newspaper people and politicians some very powerful, into his manipulations.

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    • Tela

      Thank you Eric for your comment. I did laugh at the ‘I’m kind of right’. There is no ‘kind of’ when talking about a Narcissistic Sociopath. Everything about them is make-believe. Everything about them is a constant moving mine-field. Of course they ‘know how to spin the truth’. Read THIS. It’s not called ‘they know how to spin the truth, it’s called Pathological Liar!

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    • Tela

      Thank you NotMe2014 for your comment. And yes, for the most part they do follow the same ‘playbook’, they ALL have the same traits. Only difference? Names and faces!!

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    • Tela

      Hello my dear friend Gerry! I’m sorry I haven’t been on the reader in quite some time as I am so busy with work {it seems Sociopaths are in epidemic proportion right now}. And then devote my after hours time to this website and emails. I hope you are feeling better! I saw where you had posted you were having some medical issues. Thank you for bringing light into my world! Much love to you! ❤ ❤

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  2. Santaland

    On the nail again. Let me share. When I met the wonderful/perfect ex she told me about South Beach, how they (she and her best friend) hung out, lots of friends etc…sure I was impressed with the stories, great photos of her sitting on the bar etc. Fast forward a year later, we go to South Beach from Santaland….by then the abuse was in full swing. So I asked, hmmm, where are all your ‘cool’ friends and where is your hotel, since we were staying in SB. She looked bewildered, shocked, then stated well they were her best friend’s friends…OK…hmmm, and the hotel, oh ahhh, shit, there it is….she points up at a Hostel, not Hotel, shared loo (toilet) etc with other guests and then started the victim shit. You know I do not have money to spend etc…hmmm but you said you spent in excess of 10,000 euros at Victoria Secret, LV, blah blah blah…then I went back to her ‘great pals’ in SB….Yes was being a bastard, and so what. Turns out they were guys who hustle girls who look good to the bars for free drinks to lure customers. Then she launched into how her best friend is a total whore, she slept around etc….hmmmm, and you went to church whilst this was going on..right honey?!?!? Fuck you….is what I got, and deserved. Sex we did not have during that trip…punishment time when you call them out. To add a cherry to everything, at the end of our Carib. trip we stayed the last night at the Hilton close to the airport…she began to cry when she saw the room…I too was impressed but not in awe…they upgraded me and I told her this…she cried…ohhhhh how beautiful the room is…and spent the rest of the evening taking selfies sending them to Santaland on FB. Personally, it was conveniant to get to the airport. Yes Tela…CON artists maximus.

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    • Tela

      Thank you SantaLand for your comment. I had to laugh when you asked the ex where the hotel was she stayed with her make believefriends! I’ve been to South Beach numerous times & if she stayed at some impressive hotel etc. it would have been on Ocean Avenue! So right there you caught her! I also love how you backed her into the corner regarding her ‘spending money at VS/ LV’ and she could not back that up. Yep! Total con artist she is!! I’m so sorry you endured this horrific woman! And being treated in such a disrespectful/ degrading way {withholding sex, silent treatment etc} especially considering the amount of time & MONEY you invested in her, this trip and trying to build a life with a con artist!!

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  3. Ken Jean

    How about a simple sociopath test/evaluation we could use.
    The pros have detailed tests but what are the five simple things we could ask ourselves before falling into another trap.

    Your blog has helped so much to recover from betrayal
    and the lies. Thank You

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    • Tela

      Thank you Ken for your comment. IF only there was a simple test/evaluation. Problem is, when we, the professionals are diagnosing a persona with ASPD/Cluster B personalities, they have a terrific way of manipulating the text and our questions. However, when we deal with them on a daily basis, it is easy to see through their BS. So with that being said, for someone like you {and everyone reading this website}, I would suggest the following: when you first meet someone be mindful of how much they talk about themselves, accomplishments etc. And then on the other hand, if they talk about ‘an abusive ex’, or they don’t have joint custody of children~ HUGE RED FLAGS! Also, if YOU feel the relationship is moving much to fast {as compared to prior ones}, another HUGE RED FLAG. If the intimacy/sex is over the top euphoric, stop and start asking yourself ‘what is it with this person’. I’m not saying that ‘normal’ relationships/people don’t have this, however, a Sociopath does and will use sex to suck you in!! Also, try, really, really hard to stay emotionally disconnected until you are certain that the person does not have some sort of agenda/personality disorder. Sociopaths are skilled con artist. Much smarter than ‘us’. If you find yourself being sucked into something that is not right, or their words just don’t add up and you hear lies~ RUN!! You have already encountered a Sociopath before, so you are aware of what should be & feel right. And the betrayal, heartache, Tsunami Shit storm sucks!!! But in time it does get better!!! I will work on an article regarding a ‘simple evaluation’. 😀

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    • notme2014

      My number one at that list would be….follow your gut…listen to your instincts. I know with me…my head was screaming at me…something is not right!!…but my heart…well…that’s another story. Love and Light.

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      • Tela

        Even if you follow your gut, the Sociopath can sense when they are not conning you hard enough. Therefore they go about their con artist way’s from another direction. If we could only have our head and hearts on the same page when we meet these vile individuals. But because they are so very skilled and you feel like the luckiest person on the planet that your heart over rides your thought process.

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    • Ken Jean

      That check list should start with:
      Are you thinking with your heart
      instead of your mind…..?

      My situation was a loyal long time (10 yr) acquaintance that earned trust,
      not sex or relationship.
      Then major felony embezzlement.
      So there are others that lie more than just mates or friends.

      In this case it resulted in a two year prison term
      and denial all the way for a deserving sociopath.
      They especially don’t like being caught

      So step one on my new checklist is heart vs mind judgement.
      But the sociopath knows how to entice trust
      without any remorse of responsibility.
      Your best advice received is NO CONTACT
      and it is so wise

      recovering and getting on with life
      thx

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      • Tela

        Ken, your correct, it should start with are you thinking with your heart instead of your mind. But like ALL person’s who have encountered a Sociopath {Narcissist} know, that their ability to take over our thought process from pretty much word ONE, makes our mind over-rule the heart. Because most Sociopaths move the relationship along very, very quickly {so that you do not catch on to who/what they really are}, that by that time your heart is already 100% invested into them. Every single person I have spoke with has always said “if I only knew then what I know now”. So of course, if the whole world was educated on ASPD/Cluster B Personalities, then all the Narcissist & Sociopaths would be sailing around this world alone. But because they have that innate ability to con us into believing their bullshit lies words & actions in the beginning, our hearts do not want to listen to our minds.

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