A Healing & Informative Site About Narcissistic Sociopaths


You have finally discovered the truth about the person you have/are been with. They are a Sociopath. You have read, did hours & hours of research, searching for answers. And in the normal human mind, we want to try and deny what we have read. We try and justify that ‘maybe they have some of these traits, but not all’. And that could be very true. Not all Sociopaths exhibit the same traits to the same degree. But they all have them. 

Now the denial is over and reality has or is sinking in. Here come the Rivers of Tears. The bodies way of cleansing itself. While your in the deepest darkest place you have ever been in your life, do not loose your dignity. 

/ˈdignitē/ noun

1. The moment you realize that the person you cared for has nothing intellectually or spiritually to offer you, but a headache.

2. The moment you realize God had greater plans for you that don’t involve crying at night or sad Pinterest quotes.

3. The moment you stop comparing yourself to others because it undermines your worth, education and your parent’s wisdom.

4. The moment you live your dreams, not because of what it will prove or get you, but because that is all you want to do. People’s opinions don’t matter.

5. The moment you realize that no one is your enemy, except yourself.

6. The moment you realize that you can have everything you want in life. However, it takes timing, the right heart, the right actions, the right passion and a willingness to risk it all. If it is not yours, it is because you really didn’t want it, need it or God prevented it.

7. The moment you realize the ghost of your ancestors stood between you and the person you loved. They really don’t want you mucking up the family line with someone that acts anything less than honorable.

8. The moment you realize that happiness was never about getting a person. They are only a helpmate towards achieving your life mission.

9. The moment you believe that love is not about losing or winning. It is just a few moments in time, followed by an eternity of situations to grow from.

10. The moment you realize that you were always the right person. Only ignorant people walk away from greatness.”   shannon alder


3 Responses to “Dignity”

  1. revgerry

    Dearest Tela,
    The healing from the river of tears comes when you finally accept the truth and fully sever the hold he has on you. This most certainly involves forgiving yourself for not seeing through him sooner and him for being who he is – and completely releasing both the anger and the shame. Only then has there been no harm to you and that is only yours to do. Of course I want that freedom for you and for all of your followers. Such strength and grace – and joy – is yours as you move on. hugs, gerry


  2. 18mitzvot

    Wow. So powerful. “Only ignorant people walk away from greatness.”
    I so get the part about the ghosts of my ancestors standing between me and the sociopath. God wants more for me than to settle for misery with David. Great post, Tela.

    Liked by 1 person

    • Tela

      Thank you Rivka….and yes, ‘only ignorant people walk away from greatness’. So we are NOT ignorant, and it took great mental & emotional strength to get away from the Narcissistic Sociopath. ❤



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