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I Love You Forever Sociopath

I Love You are the 3 most powerful words, and when used together can create bonds for a lifetime. Except when spoken by a Sociopath.

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A Sociopath does not feel love! Instead, love is another way of control and keeping you weak. The sociopath will tell you repeatedly I Love You, and that really means is; I must control you so do you love me? With this ‘love’ the sociopath feels is actually ownership for you. I wrote about Object Of Desire here, and this goes hand in hand with the sociopath love.

When you get involved with a sociopath and they declare their love for you, they are actually putting the blinders on you silently and methodically. Remember the endless compliments, the empty  promises of a future together, the litany of shared interests and goals, the same values, the invisible chain being placed around your soul. A sociopath has the ability to create such false illusions about themselves, that we are extremely hurt and confused at the end of the relationship. And this is because during the sociopath I love You moments, he was kind, caring, compassionate {just like normal} people, except theirs is done with an agenda. And agenda that is set out to destroy your self-esteem, and self-worth. “Love makes the world-go-round”, as the saying goes, and the sociopath gives you their false love which puts you on the crazy train of ‘go-round’.

One of the hardest things to accept with a sociopath relationship is, knowing you gave your love to an empty, hollow, vile individual. We are constantly searching for love and acceptance. You just cannot accept the fact that you were  conned into loving someone whole heartedly……. and then discarded in such a brutal, cold, uncaring fashion. I do believe, however, there are those rare sociopaths that actually do love in the sense that we do. However, because their whole lives exist on control and power over others, their love gets lost in the convoluted mess of their brains and only when they feel they are loosing control or actually loosing you, do they then feel love. 

A sociopath also places stipulations on his love As long as they feel you are ‘behaving’ as they demand request, as long as you are not fliriting speaking to anyone they do not know, as long as you must provide financial support, and as long as you realize understand your needs and wants are not important, as long as you continue to be the puppet on the invisible string then the sociopath will love you. How did your sociopath love you?

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.”  ―anaïs nin

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5 Responses to “I Love You Forever Sociopath”

  1. Teela Hart

    “As long as they feel you are ‘behaving’ as they demand request, as long as you are not fliriting speaking to anyone they do not know, as long as you must provide financial support, and as long as you realize understand your needs and wants are not important, as long as you continue to be the puppet on the invisible string then the sociopath will love you”
    As we discussed earlier today, they must have a club somewhere. This whole magnificent, post rings truer than I have words for. They’re batshit crazy in love if……….
    Awesome post girl.

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