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Liebster Award


When I saw an email stating I had been nominated for the Liebster award I thought to myself ‘there are so many other blogger’s who deserve this more than I do’.  Their life ‘stories’, their ‘experiences’ and for other’s their survival makes me in awe of them. So to be nominated truly came as a huge surprise. The amazing lady who nominated me for this award is Teela Hart . This Sister Survivor is one of the biggest activist for abuse. She not only blogs, she is very active on Twitter and other social media sites. Please check out her pages, as she has loads of valuable information and resources for victim’s of abuse.

These are the Questions that Teela asked me:

  1. Who do you write for?I write for myself, my family, but most importantly for the victim’s and survivor’s of abuse. 
  2. If the internet went down would you still continue to write? I have kept a diary {teen years}, and journal’s most of my adult years. So yes! I would continue to write. 
  3. Does having an audience feel important to you and for your blog? I do not personally feel I need an ‘audience’ as my blog is public so that anyone, anywhere seeking answers, confirmation, validation etc. can hopefully find that on my blog. I specifically write from a female perspective on male Narcissistic Sociopath’s. Therefore I would use ‘target audience’. 
  4. Are you finished designing your blog?It is always a work in progress 🙂
  5. Would you advertise more if you could? Between all the fabulous blogger’s on WP, and the social media outlets I use, any other avenue of advertising would be great to help one person from becoming a victim of abuse.
  6. Have you ever told a lie on your blog?Absolutely not! I have blurred out the face on my Ex SP, (there needs to be a website to plaster these faces!) 🙂
  7. What type of blogs do you like?Spiritual blogs, and women’s issues. I also enjoy blogs about fashion. And all blogs about abuse (of any kind)
  8. If you could have a dinner party with 10 famous figures dead or alive who would they be? I would pick 10 fellow blogger’s. 
  9. Are you proud of your blog or is it a secret? I am very proud of my blog. The words are from years of school, experience in my personal life, and hopes for the future, so I am proud of who I am, and where I have been.
  10. Do you think blogging awards are motivating or depressing? Motivating~what a great feeling knowing at least one person appreciates your words.
  11. Name one person who has made a significant impact on your life. My Ex Narcissistic Sociopath. After escaping the abuse, I had no choice but to become a better person. I was not, and will not be his victim for the remainder of my life! He taught me, that if we truly want to forgive, we have to dig deep and let go of all the toxicity.  

As per the rules of the award, here are 11 random facts about me. 

  • I am left handed
  • I have a Starbucks addiction
  • I have 4 dogs (that own me). One of them the worst black lab ever on the planet! But I love her to pieces. I will post her picture at the end of this.
  • I was raised in Texas, and my family raises livestock.
  • I think I will be a life long student, I am pursing my PhD
  • I believe that happiest girls are the prettiest girls.
  • I am the most impatient driver (not to be confused with road rage)…
  • I love the smell of Barnes & Nobles.
  • Fall is my favourite time of year
  • I think I was born on the wrong continent, in the wrong century! LOL
  • No matter how ‘book smart’ I am, my heart lead me through a true test of my self. I am now my own best friend 🙂

These are the blogger’s I nominate for the Liebster Award:

http://revgerry.wordpress.com/ ~This ladies words of wisdom have brought peace to me on some of my craptastic day’s.

http://infrakshun.wordpress.com/ ~brilliant blogger!!

http://avictimsjournal.wordpress.com/ ~this lady has been through the most horrific abuse! I admire her strength.

http://theundiedrawer.wordpress.com/ ~my favourite blog!

http://betternotbroken.com/about/ ~another sister survivor who I am in awe of her strength & resilience

http://kristendperkins.wordpress.com/ ~i think this lady and I dated the same person (well not literally), the road out of hell was the same

http://inconsistentlyyours.wordpress.com/ ~there are so many day’s  I can relate to this girls blog!

http://poetryofmaxim.wordpress.com/ ~his poetry is amazing!!

http://eoftheu2014.wordpress.com/ ~her story from leaving to healing, written with a sense of humor always brings a smile to my face

http://afterthepsychopath.wordpress.com/ ~another amazing blogger’s life after horrific abuse

http://thephoenixagain.wordpress.com/ ~just the title of her blog gives you an insight of where she has been.

Here are my questions for the above Nominations:

  1. What is the best thing about you?
  2. What time of day do you blog?
  3. How many revisions does it  take before you finally publish? (love this one)
  4. Who is/was the most influential person in your life
  5. In one word describe yourself
  6. Where do you see yourself one year from now?
  7. What is your favourite social media?
  8. What type of blogs do you follow?
  9. What is the motivating factor for you to blog?
  10. How would you describe my blog content to someone who has not read it
  11. What have you learned about yourself from blogging?

And here is the worst black lab ever~ nothing like laying next to her destruction she did this day! I love her sooo much 🙂


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12 Responses to “Liebster Award”

  1. betternotbroken

    Congratulations! You deserve it! When I posted it is an honor I meant it! And thank you for not only the validation your site gives to me on a continuous basis but also for the kind words and nomination.


    • Tela

      I laughed at your comment M.K…..she is so horribly spoiled, and with this typical expression of her’s it is difficult at best to get angry! On another note~she has her very own Instagram account!!! 🙂


    • Tela

      Thank you dear Teela! And you are definitely an inspiration to me. Although we have not met in person, I feel like I have known you my whole life! Keep up the fabulous work you do for the victim’s of abuse, all the while trying to deal with your own! Just an amazing person you are! 🙂



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