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Scandal And Deceit

“Oh, what a tangled web we weave…when first we practice to deceive” Walter Scott


After months and months and more months of salacious scandal and  pure verbal warfare I had to retain an attorney to try and stop the non-stop abuse from the Socio. The Socio decided that his smear campaign was not doing quite enough damage to me…..so he resorted to social media.  These are some of the ways Sociopath’s/Psychopaths/Narcissist try and ruin us via the internet.

  • Facebook~they will post pictures of you and he/she and then leave a slanderous comment on the pic. (and in my case post my phone number)
  • Instagram~another way to post pictures and more slanderous comments (or delusional comments)
  • Craig’s List~ yep, that’s right! Putting an ad on there for some random crap and listing your phone number. (how scary is this for a single female)!!!!
  • Online Dating Profile~I personally have never had an online dating profile, but imagine my surprise anger when I found out “I” had one!!
  • Signing Up On Pornography Sites~and using your email.


After having all this done, it was time to start fighting back~LEGALLY.  When obtaining a solicitor/attorney to represent you against a Sociopath, Psychopath, Narcissist it is imperative that you find one with previous experience dealing with these kind of people. I cannot stress this enough! As we know, our Socio’s etc can manipulate any and all situations, even the legal system! Remember how easy they duped us? Solicitor’s and Attorney’s need job security as well, but not at the expense of us!

Lies and scandal’s can and will destroy us in the public eye. And if manipulated convinced enough, these lies and scandal will destroy everything from family, to career’s, child custody, to volunteer work etc. The emotional/mental and for some the physical abuse we have endured is destructive enough. Yet, Sociopath’s have no shame, guilt or even remorse for creating social destruction for us.

I am not saying that having a solicitor send a letter such as mine above will stop your Sociopath from further ruination (as it enraged mine), but when I threatened with further actions {as my attorney listed in the letter} the Socio realized I was serious. As we know so well they do not want to be found out~ EXPOSED for who and what they truly are!

This is an email that the Socio sent to my attorney after receiving my Cease and Desist letter: notice how he manipulates my attorney’s wording, and accuses ME of  ‘harassment, a lair/cheater and deceiver’, and justify his words and actions because what he did/said was ‘simply the truth’ {in his delusional mind}.  Typical though of a Sociopath. I did have my cell records subpoenaed to prove the Socio wrong, and also to protect my reputation. {see again Liar Liar } . Do not throw away, shred or get rid of anything from your Sociopath. You never know when you have to literally fight for yourself and/or your reputation.

From: ******
Date: Dec 19, 2013 05:38:08 PM
Subject: Re: Cease and Desist Letter
To: *****

Slanderous comments? Could you please define that? The comments I’ve made are neither malicious, slanderous nor defamatory, simply the truth. And also, since they were written, I believe it is called libel, and not slander correct? Unlike your friend Miss *****, I am not the liar, cheater, or deceiver. I have ask her numerous times times to stop contacting me (which, if you would have taken the time to look at the facts on her cell phone instead of simply going by what she told you, would be quite obvious). I have no intention of contacting her other than sending her her personal items which she left in my house, which I did PRIOR to receiving this letter. And since you are not an agency which can tell me to cease and desist anything, your letter, legally, has zero bearing to me. If Miss ***** wants to continue to harass me, either personally or through a third party such as yourself, then I will go ahead and pursue my endeavors that I have already begun, but have placed on hold. Like I said, she has harassed me,  (which I have the texts from her) along with many other things. So if anybody has committed slander and libel, it’s your friend.  Lol.
Sent from

G*** iPhone����
Needless to say, and as will be no surprise to most of you, the Socio STILL continues to contact me (although the social ruination has stopped). I do not respond to his attempts at contact as I have  literally removed myself from the path to hell. Re-reading his email to my attorney just makes me realize how truly dangerous  Sociopath’s, Psychopath’s, Narcissist and anyone with a personality disorder truly are! And how easily they manipulate words and actions .
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11 Responses to “Scandal And Deceit”

  1. Tela

    Thank you Constance for your comment. And following your blog- it just makes me sad how we are basically ‘prisoners’ of these vile/viscous human beings! And it is a daily ‘fight’ against the devil himself!


  2. Constance

    It’s been a regular nightmare since leaving the ex narcopath. The things that he’s done to me since leaving are scary. I just want him to leave me alone. I’ve been hyper-vigilant ever since.


  3. A Mom's Perspective

    Wow, that is crazy! I am glad you retained an attorney. I would pursue charges since he is still harassaing you. It’s so hard to believe that there are people like this in the world! But, I too am dealing with a narcissist/sociopath/crazy person! My husbands ex who wants to smear me to the children, causing a huge divide. It’s sad the power they have over other peoples lives and happiness.
    Good luck to you and hopefully he will become bored with you soon and leave you alone.


    • Tela

      Thank you so much for your comment. I mainly write about a male sociopath/narcissist, however, personality disorder’s are not gender specific. I can’t even begin to imagine what you are dealing with not only being a step-parent, but having to deal with a CRAZY ex! Best of luck to you!


  4. Sunshine

    Wow….very textbook. He did all those things to me. I disovered I had a profile on a fetish/fantasy hook up site with pics n all…I am still hopeful that come trial day ( end of March) the judge will see through all his crap…


    • Tela

      Thank you Sunshine for your comment. Finger’s crossed for a positive outcome in your favour..I hope the judge will not be manipulated by your Ex or his solicitor.


  5. teddylee01

    great post , some people are powerful manipulators … it’s insane how people like that who do all the abuse and Then claim being the victim ..



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