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Object Of Desire


Why do we love sociopath’s? How easy was it to fall in love with the perfect person who shared so many of your similarities?. How easy was it to believe what was spewing from their mouths?  While we have/are falling in love with the person, a sociopath is claiming an object of his/her desire. And therein is the difference between those of us who do not have a personality disorder {or however you want to label your sociopath/psychopath/narcissist}.

The media and Hollywood have created ‘good’ sociopath’s. They profit from the exploitation of what sociopath’s do. Is there really such a thing? What ‘good’ is there in a person who sets out to absolutely destroy your entire being?  The thing that set’s us apart from a sociopath is they manipulate social connections, while we are mired in them. They have a detachment to feelings of love, compassion, empathy, and truth! Whereas, we feel each of these things. We have a moral compass.

If only I didn’t give a fuck about anyone or anything, we think–then I would be powerful and free. Then I would be the one with millions of dollars, with the powerful and prestigious job, with more sexual opportunities than I know what to do with.

This quote is how a sociopath’s mind works…….they actually don’t give a fuck about anyone or anything. All is open game to them at whatever cost to their object of desire. Be it a person, a position in their career or a social standing.  Their sexual opportunities are what drives their highly delusional over-inflated ego they have about themselves. We are bound by moral’s and social obligations. Sociopath’s are completely amoral. How many times have your tried to reason with your sociopath only to be made to feel like you, yourself are seriously lacking in any moral’s? Or you, yourself seriously lack in social obligations? That’s because they can twist and turn and manipulate your thought process since they have a total detachment from truth. They are just like a child who cries because they want a new toy……once they get the toy, they play with it for a bit then toss it.

Sociopath’s spend their entire lives working to obtain their objects of desire. Imagine the amount of effort it would take for us, non-socio’s to try and callously obtain someone knowing we were simply going to use them for a bit, then coldly and heartlessly walk away. Our hearts bleed~we wonder, do they even have a heart? I know in the literal sense they do, I also know, they are soulless. So when we set our mind out to obtain an object of desire , that is usually a physical object, and never a person! And the hardest part to wrap our heads around is the cold and calculated way sociopaths/psychopath’s bring innocent children into their amoral beliefs.

If you haven’t heard this , you need to listen to it. This is my socio in a classic narcissist rage and the object of his desire at this moment is getting what he wanted at the expense of innocent lives. {note-you may have to listen to it on a PC as it does not load on a phone or tablet.} That is is ex-wife and 8 year old daughter. You can hear the complete detachment in his voice when addressing his child. Because any and everything physical and non-physical is simply an object of desire to a sociopath, and nothing more.

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3 Responses to “Object Of Desire”

  1. Denice

    Very well written! And so helpful. Father God, continue to give her insight to help others!



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