The Seduction begins…………..
- Like any exciting, new relationship starts out, I just knew i had found my ‘prince charming’. Little did i know he was actually a sociopath disguised in a pretty face with a charming personality. I was flattered with the amount of
interest ,assessment he showed in me. All the questions he asked, thegenuineconcern if there was something he though ‘bothered’ me. Always willing to make laugh, going to extremes to sendmultiplerandom text during the day just to say ‘hi’. He appeared to hold the same values as me, talked about his successful career, how important his 2 daughters are (from 2 different marriages, which i will get to later). He said he loved dogs as much as me (i have 4). He planned several romantic weekends away, and did things on the spur of the moment. The hotel room would be full of flowers, a picnic basked packed and so on. And always the same question ‘can i get you anything’, ‘are you ok’ ‘are you happy’. Unbeknownst to me, he was setting ‘the hook’ as i call it. I was so blinded by the onslaught of attention (assesement/seducing/mirroring) that i had no idea what was going on. All i thought was, finally i met the man of my dreams.
- i will share my journey from hell. ‘sharing is healing’ and The Lord knows, i have a long road ahead.
10 Responses to “The Seduction begins…………..”
I’ve been there too, it is horrifying and leaves plenty of emotional scars.
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Thank you Lunna for your comment! And you are correct- it is horrifying, a daily nightmare! Blessings to you!
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I loved the ‘interest’ actually being ‘assessment’. Good observation. My dad actually pointed out to me how my ex had observed me for years before pursuing me.
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Thank you Kristal for your comment~
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Yes, indeed, that’s what I was inferring – namely, that out socio-political systems have been comprehensively taken over by such people. The only way out from such a mess much be disbursing information as widely as possible.
Onwards and upwards…
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M.K. Styllinski~Thank you! And I’m afraid there already may be some of these people in positions of power…..sadly!
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H.G. Beverly, what a fabulous description of the ‘captivation’ by a sociopath!!
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I wish you well as you heal. Blogs like this are essential in lifting the lid on sociopaths/psychopaths who go about their business with impunity. And can you imagine what it’s like when we have these people in positions of power on the world stage?
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I describe it as a swirling, sparkling smoke that overwhelms your senses and captivates you… and then lingers in the corners long after he’s gone.
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This describes my socio perfectly, about the multiple text!!!
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